I Let My Little Sister DATE My BOYFRIEND For 24 Hours!
My sister and I are very close and though I am going through my own problems separation we haven't been able to spend a lot of time together. She lives on campus and goes to college so i don't know her "new friends" very well. My problem is I don't understand how they couldn't tell me from the start instead of sneaking around, if he was my best friend he could have come and told me right?
I would like to talk to both of them about this but I don't know where to start. I have so many questions and thoughts running through my head it's Insane This is my little sister and my best friend. In general when friends date their friend's sisters, they'd expect some kind of negative response from their friends, so maybe your friend was initially afraid of your reaction.
Your friend should've told you about your thoughts on dating your sister, but ultimately it is their decision on whether or not they love each other. If you respect your friend, talk to him, confront him about why he didn't tell you about this matter sooner and see how he thinks and only then make any necessary decisions.
Knowing both sides of the story from your sister and your friend is also necessary before making any furhter decisions. I suggest speaking with your friend and sister separately to see if their stories match. If they do, there's little to be suspicious about. If their stories don't match, well then, you decide what happens then, none of us can I don't know what part of society you live in but if your 'friend' was divorces at 20 and had a child at 18 then his intentions with your sister are sour.
If he has been seeing her for the past year then he clearly doesn't respect you, plain and simple.
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It's admirable that you care about your sister, but sincerely she and your friend are both of age and are consenting adults. It might be wise to voice your concerns to them seperately, but beyond that your control is not required unless requested.
Aug 29, · My little sister just turned 18 (few days) and we had a big birthday bash for her. Well I caught her and my best friend (who's 24) kissing in the kitchen, I pretended not to notice but then I confronted them about it and they told me they had been seeing each other for past year. I was shocked and I was angry at the both of them, I mean this is my best friend we've been best friends for Jan 16, · There are people who have dated the siblings of the friends, and it's turned out well. There are far more people who have dated the siblings of friends, and ended terribly. First it depends on your age, and the age of your friend's sister. If you're in high school, I'd say don't do it.
You have your own life to deal with and that may be enough at the moment. Firstly, your mate should have told you and it is really off that he did not. There are bound to be trust issues.
With that said, there is no reason why you should be upset about them dating. I would explain to him that you are really upset that he did not tell you and that seek an explanation why.
This is a tough one but good luck. What can I do about their parents? Share Facebook. Dating my best friend's younger sister?
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Chill out. Now really think about it. I married my bro's best friend and it's been nearly 26 years now!
Chances are if they've seen you together they prob won't be surprised to know your dating. You're both adults and can and should do what you feel is right and not let others order your life I really wonder if you're feeling some guilt about the sex? Sex always seems to complicate things.
Not that it's wrong and no I'm not one of those females that hates sex We almost made it.
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LOL We were engaged but I wish we'd have waited. Don't throw away a good thing here dude! SakuraUchiha Xper 4.I Dated My Best Friend's Sister
Well if you both share the same feelings this is a good thing, and your best friend will understand but it might feel a bit awkward for him and I suggest you don't hurt his sister or I'm pretty sure he WILL kill you or put you in the hospital. You always have to be careful with parents but if they like you and they know you truly care and you aren't going to hurt their daughter they will accept it.
And Emily is probably wanting you to be her boyfriend and wondering if you are having second thoughts about being with her. Just try to spend time with both her and Kylebecause if you spend more time with Emily Kyle will feel betrayed. EvanNassau Xper 5.
If' you're considering dating your friend's sister because you're into each other, that's acceptable in my eyes. If you just want to bang your friend's sister you can probably find a different lay that won't screw up your friendship. I've told this story here before. My best friends little sister wanted to sleep with me when she was 17 and I was 19 (that's legal in Canada). I was drunk but had enough sense to go ask my friend and he replied "Sure that's her mistake to make.". I am 22, my best friend Kyle is 24 and his sister Emily is Kyle and I have been best friends for about the past years and while I've always thought his sister was cute, I didn't do anything about it cause he is my best friend.
Hey, I would put Emily's mind at ease and go out with her. It's what you want and it's what she wants. I wouldn't worry to much about her being your best friend's sister because he's cool with it. But, I'd have a convo with him letting him know how you feel about her and telling him your intentions on going out with her. I'm sure he'll be supportive. You are already "in the relationship" - there's no turning back now - so enjoy it.
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